InterFriendship
InterFriendship
20.10.2014
Anna & Rüdiger:
"This man will be the last. After him i will close profile."
In June he told me that I have all rights of future wife and flied to me. He presented me with roses and a melody, written specially for me, and on the next day he asked me to become his wife.
"This man will be the last. After him i will close my profile at InterFriendship" - I told to myself, tired of searching, loosing hope to find love."... And let myself relax..." After long letters we started to Skype. Rüdiger did not speak a lot, listened attentively and played piano or guitar for me on Skype. During our conversations I could cry without being afraid that my red nose looks ugly and could easily stay without makeup. We started calling each other by phone every 2-3 hours. We were at distance but together.
In June he told me that I have all rights of future wife and flied to me. He presented me with roses and a melody, written specially for me, and next day he made me a proposal, with Ring. I asked for time to think it over. I was surprised how polite he was, how great he cooked, how wisely he solved the problems, and I wanted him more and more. He visited me in July, then in August... We were sitting on the bar terrace, when the waiter brought us 2 notes with predictions. My prediction told that the easiest way to make someone happy is to be happy. His paper asked - what he has done for his Dream to come true))). After such a heavenly hint Jack asked me again - and I answered Yes!
My future husband started to prepare documents for visa in Switzerland where he opened a restaurant, I started to prepare things for wedding: the best dress, the greatest accessoires, the nicest flowers...so sweet worries I had!
In December I flied to him to Switzerland. It was a beautiful time of our travelling across all Europe but it was also a difficult time because we discovered our social differences. In one month I returned to Ukraine and found out that I was pregnant (doctors told me before that its would be difficult for me, so I was so happy to hear it).
We met with problems concerining marriage in Switzerland. In embassy they asked for a new document every time or found mistakes and made us new appointments with intervals of 2-3 months. We started to think that it would have no end... So my future husband closed his restaurant in Switzerland and started a new business in Germany... In August he came to me by surprise...with all documents)) and in one week we married. 08.08. 2013, Thursday, was not an a working office day. We officially married in the best, central Kiev wedding palace. (I was in my sixth month).
It was the happiest day in my life ))). I did not sleep all night, worrying. In the morning before registration, according to the Ukrainian tradition Jack had to "buy" me from my friends and relatives. He had to solve funny tasks, answered questions about us (if the answer was wrong, he had to pay :) ). But he coped with all tasks, answered all questions right, even those that my mother and best friend did not answer! Then a stretch limousine came, and after a long fotosession, with sounds of lyrical music we got married, according to the Ukrainian tradition, with blessing of parents, with biting from "marriage bread" etc. I hardly translated for husband the ceremony cause my voice was trembling with tears. We stood on the national carpet 'rushnick', that symbolized the happy way of life, and that moment a rose from my boquette felt down on it )). People believe that who first stands on carpet, will be leader in the family. In our case it was a rose, symbol of love ))))
Then we went to the restaurant with our closest friends. After that my husband brought me to the hotel on board of a ship. It was so romantic! The Day finished so quickly! All your life your are waiting for these minutes and they rush away!
Then came 8,5 long weeks of expectations of visa... My dear even took a lawyer, we both calling and writing to embassy but visa was ready only in the middle of October. The doctor did not want to let my fly so I had to go to through a special private commission...and next morning I flied to Germany, with 35,5 Werks of pregnancy. Quick preparation of documents, insurances etc. .. In one month, on the 26.11.2013 our Michelle was born, that turned out to be a surprise for us, because we did not know whether we have a boy or a girl. My dear husband was at my side all the time and I can not imagine what would I do without his support.
We live together in Germany for one year. First I missed my work very much, but then I realized that now I work for my family! Started to learn German. I found out that my husband really loves football, he found out that I can be jealous. But we love each other and are thankful to InterFriendship for our used chance to find Love!
